Nice Churchy Patriarchy

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Even in the warmest and most welcoming evangelical churches, patriarchy looms as an ever-present force, suppressing women’s possibilities and debilitating whole communities. Well-intentioned churchgoers and church leaders have bought into deeply-entrenched male-dominated mindsets, power structures, and theologies that are not working—not for women, and really not for anyone.

Part memoir and part faith-based feminist manifesto, Nice Churchy Patriarchy takes an unflinching look at the ways misogyny’s subtler forms impact every aspect of women’s experiences in church. From leading a church college ministry, to attending seminary, to eventually developing the confidence to preach, Liz Cooledge Jenkins weaves together her own journey with reflections on biblical interpretation, church history, and intersectional feminism. 

After confronting misogyny’s faces head-on, Liz goes on to explore how we can build better faith communities together. For all who long to see women’s gifts greeted in churches with gratitude rather than a suspicious side eye, Nice Churchy Patriarchy points the way.

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Advance praise for Nice Churchy Patriarchy:

“The energy and optimism in this text will be a pure gift to her fellow Christians yearning for a more enlightened church.”

Kirkus Reviews

“A superbly brave and frank memoir by a woman who is deeply called to do Christian ministry yet is stymied by the barriers to women’s full participation that are upheld by church leaders, ingrained in texts, and espoused by congregants. This compassionate and solutions-oriented approach is a must-read for non-traditional leaders in male-dominated religious spaces.”

-Julie Lythcott-Haims, New York Times bestselling author of Real American: A Memoir

“With razor-sharp attention to detail, Liz Cooledge Jenkins persistently pulls at the threads of patriarchy, those we can readily observe all around us and those that lurk beneath the surface of our traditions. She thoroughly considers and exposes their effects and implications and does not rest until we can see them for what they really are: harmful, unjust, and dehumanizing practices that are incompatible with the God whose image we all bear. But she does not leave us bereft; generously sharing both personal experiences and scholarly insights, Cooledge Jenkins offers us hope that, together, we might yet take these tired threads and weave something new.”

-Cameron Bellm, author of A Consoling Embrace: Prayers for a Time of Pandemic

“In Nice Churchy Patriarchy, Liz Cooledge Jenkins shows that patriarchal systems are neither nice nor particularly Christian, not when they diminish and distort the Imago Dei in all of God’s children. Jenkins uses her considerable experience attending and working in evangelical churches as a narrative frame for her exploration of Christian patriarchy, writing in compelling detail about how women’s gifts, their voices, and their humanity is often diminished in the misguided name of ‘God’s will.’ More importantly, Jenkins provides a way forward, inviting us to reclaim an agency that already belongs to us, simply because we already belong to God.”

-Melanie Springer Mock, Professor of English at George Fox University and author of Worthy: Finding Yourself in a World Expecting Someone Else and Finding Our Way Forward: When the Children We Love Become Adults (forthcoming)

“Liz Cooledge Jenkins uncovers the subtle ways in which patriarchy has spiritually injured our views of God and of ourselves. She grounds herself well both in her social location as a white cisgendered heterosexual woman and as a Christian who sees herself within the complexities of social intersectionality for people of color and LGBTQ+ communities who also have their own unique experiences under “nice churchy patriarchy.” For people who have found themselves disenchanted with the Evangelical church, this book helps identify theology and practices that have been harmful and latent in church ministries as well as helpful encouragement for a path forward in the faith that embraces all people.”

-Dr. Joyce del Rosario, Intercultural Studies PhD, Director of Multi-Ethnic Programs at Seattle Pacific University, and host of The Wedge podcast